"No corner, you could squeeze me?

But I got all the time for you love......" (Dave Matthews Band)

I know, it's almost sick that I've posted several times already and I just created this thing this morning. The subject of this particular post may not be clear to some. Let's start with the hot topic of today. I'm not going to name names but I think you all know whom that quote above is directed to... and if you don't, then you will know by the end of this.

Let's define relationships in my terms so you know where I'm getting with this. TALKING- This stage is when two people are interested in one another and both know it. They may talk occassionally (or often, depending on several factors) in order to get to know one another. DATING- This is when the two who were previously talking (or some people even skip that stage) decide that they do like each other and think it would be fun to go out on some dates. Two people become BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND when it is decided that the two people DO have fun when hanging out and have things in common and do really like each other. This stage means that the two are exclusive... and probably (in 99.9% of cases) care for each other so much so that they enjoy spending time together (and while not smothering each other), the two try to do so as often as they please.

Some people don't ask for much, and if you ask me, I am one of those people. All I ask is that a man not keep me in the dark about how he feels, that he makes sure I know I am being appreciated, for him to be a bit open minded about things, and for him to want to spend some time with me!!!! Is that so bad? I think not. But getting this is harder than it should be. Some say I should give up.... and sometimes it's almost as if he knows and he wants me to end it. But then I think, no. He said he would try. So why isn't he? I am big on being with friends as much as possible, but not if it means making someone feel unloved and insignificant.

I would make time for him... so why won't he for me? One night a weekend (I know his week is busy), or one night during the week if that's what it takes. I say what Dave says:

"Stay up and make some memories...."